For Valentine's Day at home, choose something soft and comfortable that is just a little more polished than your usual loungewear. That keeps the outfit relaxed, while the evening still feels a little different from usual. Think of a fine-knit cardigan, a polo in lyocell or modal and flared trousers. Below you will find looks for three kinds of Valentine's at home.

Arabella fine-knit lyocell polo for women in light blue stripe | Issu & Lloyd

Making an ordinary evening just a little different

Celebrating at home is calm and informal. A small change in your clothing can already make the evening feel different. It does not have to become formal.

Comfort with a polished fit

Choose soft clothes that feel good and are still in good shape. Choose soft, fluid fabrics such as lyocell, modal and viscose, but in a cut that looks polished. A cardigan with buttons instead of a hoodie, trousers with an elastic waistband that look like ordinary trousers, a polo instead of a printed T-shirt.

Scenario 1: cooking together

If you are in the kitchen together, you want to be able to move, roll up your sleeves and not worry about a splash of sauce.

Scenario 2: a movie night on the sofa

On the sofa you mainly want to sit soft and warm. This is the moment for knitwear.

Scenario 3: a long breakfast or brunch

If you celebrate Valentine's Day at the weekend, a long breakfast or brunch can be part of the day. Here it can be even more relaxed: a soft cardigan, a knitted polo and trousers you can keep on for the rest of the day if you go for a walk afterwards.

Overview: what to wear when

Moment Her Him
Cooking together Knitted polo, soft trousers Modal polo, chinos
Dinner at the table Same look with a piece of jewellery and a cardigan over the shoulders Polo with a shirt or cardigan over it
Movie night Fine-knit cardigan, flared trousers Quarter-zip polo, soft chinos
Breakfast Cardigan over a thin top Knitted polo

Small details

  • A piece of jewellery: earrings or a necklace you would normally only wear outside.
  • Nice socks or slippers: not worn-out ones, but something you choose deliberately.
  • A colour that suits you: light blue, cream and soft greys are flattering by candlelight.
  • Coordinate together: you do not need to match, but if you both choose soft, light shades, it looks like a whole.

Comfortable without looking sloppy

The difference between a deliberate home look and ordinary loungewear lies in the condition of your clothes. Knitwear without fuzz, trousers without baggy knees, a polo that still holds its shape. Choose pieces that feel soft, but that you would also dare to wear if someone unexpectedly rang the doorbell. That is often enough for a special evening at home.

Soft materials explained

Lyocell and modal are both cellulose-based fibres. They feel soft and smooth and drape fluidly. Modal is particularly fluid and is often used in polos that need to drape smoothly. Lyocell feels slightly cooler and is widely used in fine knitwear. Read more about modal and lyocell.

If you choose a theme together

Some couples turn Valentine's at home into a small ritual: a fixed dish, a film from the year they met, or a table with candles in a fixed colour. Your outfit can fit in with that without it becoming dressing up. Choose a colour family together, such as cream and light grey, or navy and white, and each interpret it in your own way. That way the outfits go together without being the same.

The rest of the evening

Clothing is only part of the evening. Set the table, put on music and put your phone away. Above all, choose something you feel good in. And if the evening ends on the sofa under a blanket, you are still well dressed in a soft cardigan and fluid trousers.

For soft, polished pieces for home, take a look at the Lounge collection and our knitwear for women.

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Frequently asked questions

What do you wear when celebrating Valentine's Day at home?

Something soft and relaxed that is just a little more polished than your usual loungewear: fine knitwear, a polo in lyocell or modal and soft trousers instead of joggers.

Do you need to change for an evening at home?

You do not have to, but wearing something other than your usual loungewear can make the evening a little more festive. A soft cardigan, a lovely piece of jewellery or a polo instead of an old T-shirt is enough.

Which fabrics are comfortable for an evening on the sofa?

Soft, fluid fabrics such as lyocell, modal and fine knitwear. They feel comfortable and still hold their shape, so you look polished.